There is so much information on how to attract the man you want. Most of them, more often or so are unrealistic, bizarre and can even be degrading!
Who wants to humiliate themselves in the name of love? Getting the attention of the man you wish to should be a fulfilling and exciting process, that could perhaps lead to self- discovery.
Below are 20 scientifically proven ways on HOW TO ATTRACT A MAN PHYSICALLY.
1. Be positive
Having a positive attitude towards life attracts not just men, but other people as well. No one wants to be around negative people. They say you are who you associate yourself with, if you are a positive person, you will attract positive people and vice versa.
During the early stages of getting to know each other, refrain from sharing any negative thoughts. Also, the oldest rule; don’t talk about your ex! That topic tends to bring negative energy into a conversation.
2. Be kind
Your mama always told you to be kind to people, and she was spot on! Kindness works like a charm. Men are generally attracted to women who are caring and compassionate.
Studies have shown that kindness is linked with a cooperative disposition, interest in long-term relationships, ability to form social alliances and empathy in rearing children.
Smiling is so easy and simple. There is something attractive about a cheerful and happy woman. When you smile, you instantly become more beautiful. When making conversations, remember to sneak in a smile or two, and they sure will remember you long after you were done talking.
However, you should go smiling and laughing all over, or you might end up looking crazy!
4. Correct body posture
Your body posture can say more about you than you would probably want people to find out. When you slouch, you give off a timid vibe.
It also shows that you are insecure. These two traits are the last thing you would want to put there if you are trying to attract a man. On the other hand, sitting and walking upright relays confidence which most men find attractive.
5. Get a dog
Most people thought that only men with pet dogs are attractive. However, this works for both men and women. Men are attracted to women who have a pet dog.
Owning a dog signifies that you are nurturing, patient and capable of making long-term commitments. It also makes you more approachable, who knows, you might have them come to you!
6. Wear red
Yes, the Marylyn effect is real and works like a charm! Men tend to lean more to red than any other color. Red is connected to lust, love and also a passion.
Don’t be afraid to go out of your way; add a pop of red in your outfit; you could start with that red lipstick.
7. Be a good listener
We all want someone that listens whenever we talk to them. Nothing sucks like being interrupted while you are in the middle of opening your heart up.
Always make direct eye contact and also nod when talking. This could also be the perfect time to keep your phone away. It shows that you care for the person and you are listening.
8. Know your self-worth
Knowing your self-worth and sticking to it is attractive. Men want women who know what they want and not gullible. A woman that stands up to their decision without a doubt.
Having a firm grasp on yourself and needs will make it easy for you to find a man good enough for you.
9. Be self-assured
The more you believe in yourself and abilities as a person; the more convinced he is going to be about you and will not find it difficult to believe in you. It will also make him more secure about falling in love with you.
10. Be honest
There is nothing as sexy as honesty. Try to be as honest and genuine as much as possible. Men tend to be more attracted to women they feel they can trust.
After all, who would want to be with someone they cannot trust?
11. Ask questions
When you ask, it shows that you genuinely care for the person and you want to know more about them. The next time you talk to your dream man, ask him a few questions about him. That will definitely excite him.
This has absolutely nothing to do with your age but rather with your attitude towards life in general. You could be in your 20s and still be too serious and boring. No matter your age, do not be afraid to be you. Go out and have fun!
Whenever you are around him, try to make him have a good time. Show him that you are easy going and ready to have a good time.
14. Physical fitness
I am not asking you to have the perfect abs but instead keeping fit and taking care of yourself. When you exercise, you not only look good, but you feel good about yourself as well.
15. Emotionally open
Someone from your past might have messed you up, but if you want to get him to notice you, it’s about time you let it all be in the past.
Be straight forward and let him know that you are interested in him. Most men find go-getter women attractive.
Be that bubble of bubbly and cheerful energy. This will also make him confident whenever he is around you.
An eloquent woman is a sexy woman. Show him that you can comfortably carry a conversation. Let him see that you can effectively express yourself with ease.
18. Intelligent/ smart
Beautiful and smart is a deadly combination. The next time you talk to him, don’t waste the chance to show him how smart you are by throwing in a few facts about your topic of conversation.
If he is intimidated by your intelligence, he is probably not the man for you.
19. Embrace your curves
Men are visual creatures, don’t shy away from wearing clothes that embrace and complement your curves.
20. Play with your hair
It may sound cheesy, but it actually works! However, you shouldn’t overdo it. Less is more.
Go out and let nothing hold you from getting the man of your dreams.